My father-in-law has been living with me since my mother-in-law passed away. The shock to her father-in-law, who was a devoted wife, was immeasurable, and he is still feeling depressed and unable to eat to his satisfaction. "Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you." That's what I said, but I never thought I'd say something like this... "I want to be inserted, just for 10 seconds..."