Citywide mixers are massive group dating events, and plenty of married women join in too. They are now held across the country, promising the perfect hookup to anyone who gets in. Everyone pretends to be looking for love, but hunting for a fuck buddy is practically standard. One classic move is to suggest more drinks at a love hotel, then steer the night into group sex. Once everyone splits from the friends they arrived with, the men and women who hit it off head straight off to fuck. Pick up a favorite at a pub or basement bar, then take her somewhere private—that is how these mixers work.